• Jul 15, 2025
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Self Love: Exploring Light and Shadow in Three Paintings

"Self Love" is a collection of three paintings that I painted together with the motif of sunlit warmth. Each canvas glows with gentle light, evoking emotions that transcend the surface and speak to the heart of what it means to truly care for oneself. The meaning of self-love differs from one mind to another, perhaps according to our level of consciousness, through this reflection I express what it means in my world-view and as a title I chose for this collection.

This collection was also an artistic experiment to play with different materials and techniques, pushing the boundaries of how light and shadow can express the complexity of the self.

The Emotional Landscape of Sunlight Warmth

Across the series, the sunlight radiates comfort, tranquility, and hope. This light is more than a visual element, it is a symbol of inner peace and renewal. Standing before these paintings, you may feel a gentle reassurance, a quiet optimism that uplifts the spirit and reminds you of your own resilience and worth.

The Essence of Self-Love

Self-love is the foundation of a fulfilling life. It means valuing yourself, embracing your strengths and imperfections, and treating yourself with compassion. In "Sunlit Warmth," the swirling patterns and delicate butterflies evoke a sense of personal transformation and gentle care, to evoke a sense of self-love as a nurturing force, not an indulgence.

"He who takes account of his self prospers.”

This thought runs through the collection of paintings, emphasising that genuine prosperity begins with self-awareness and self-mastery, not with the fulfilment of every fleeting desire. In my personal view mastering our desires and understanding our true needs is the foundation of genuine self-love. 

Beyond Materialism and Lust

In a world that often equates happiness with possessions or fleeting pleasures, the "Self Love" collection attempts to offer a different message. I believe that true self-love is rooted in inner values and self-acceptance, not in external validation or instant gratification. The viewer is encouraged to look beyond the surface, to seek the golden light within ourselves rather than in the world’s distractions.

Together, these qualities form the backbone of a healthy self-concept. In the painting, the butterflies symbolise growth and metamorphosis, echoing the journey of building self-esteem and self-respect through self-awareness and intentional choices.

Why Some Minds Struggle to See Beyond Materialism and Lust

- Cultural influences: Media and society often promote material success and physical attraction as measures of worth, overshadowing inner qualities.

- Lack of self-awareness: Some may not have learned to reflect on their inner needs or values, making it difficult to appreciate non-material aspects of self-worth.

  • Instant gratification: Material and lustful pursuits offer quick, tangible rewards, while self-love and self-respect require introspection and patience.

Cultivating True Self-Love

- Practice self-compassion and kindness.

- Set boundaries that honor your values.

- Reflect on what truly matters to you.

- Prioritise your mental, emotional, and physical health.

- Celebrate your progress and growth.

Inspiration: Experimenting with Materials and Techniques

The idea for this series was also sparked by a desire to break routine and warm up creatively. Each painting became an opportunity to experiment:

- Charcoal: Used for its raw, expressive power, perfect for capturing deep shadows and bold contrasts.

- Oil Paint: Chosen for its rich colour and ability to blend subtle gradients with the interplay of cools and warms to create depth.

- Chinagraph Markers: Their sharp, graphic lines allowed for dynamic highlights and crisp definition, bringing a sense of clarity and focus.

By combining these materials, I explored how different techniques could evoke unique emotional responses and highlight the interplay between light and dark, both visually and metaphorically.

In essence, self-love, self-esteem, and self-respect are about nurturing your inner world and honouring your true self—not about chasing external validation or fleeting pleasures.